Over the weekend I did a little Valentine’s Day poll. I asked who goes out or stays in, who celebrates with the kids or gets a babysitter, who exchanges gifts and some other fun little questions. And then I asked you all to help me with gift ideas — Valentine’s Day gift ideas for kids, what moms really want for Valentine’s Day and what men really want for Valentine’s Day and here’s what you all came up with:

Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas for Kids

• Socks

• Candy/chocolate

• Wonderbly books

• Slumberkins

• Stuffed animal

• Heart balloon

• Swim suits

• Their choice of dinner

• Cards

• Puzzles

• Small toy (Target dollar section!)

• They pick out one thing themselves (with a $ limit)

• Books

• Snacks

• Themed (bath, gardening, reading, activities, etc)

• Valentine’s day outfit to wear that day

• Flowers

• Koala crate or subscription box

• Cute water bottle

• Pajamas

• Scratchers

• Bath bomb

• Instruments

• One toy they’ve been asking for

• Activity (paint, play doh, coloring book, chalk, bubbles)

• Sunglasses

• Night light

• Bake or Make dinner together! (heart shaped pizzas or cookies)

• Earrings

What Moms Really Want for Valentine’s Day:

The top answers I got were spa days, alone time, massages and a cleaning service to deep clean the house!

• A clean house or a one-off cleaning service!

• Kid-free shopping spree

• Not having to do the dishes

• Professional massage

• Flowers

• To sleep in/nap

• Another baby

• A painted house

• Steam mop

• To shower and eat alone with no interruptions

• A necklace with the kids names on it

• A babysitter for date night/alone time with hubby

• A break/Me Time

• Dinner out so I don’t have to cook

• Gift cards

• A facial/Spa Day

• Photo book with memories

• Lingerie he picks out himself!

• Diamonds

• Love letter

• Candles

• Appreciation for me

• Candy/cookies

• Massage from him

• Love

• A manicure

• A new diaper bag

• Potty train the kids

• A trip/getaway

• Chocolate-covered strawberries

• Hubby changes the diapers

What Men Really Want for Valentine’s Day:

The top answer here was very clear and of course, I could’ve guessed it: sex. And the second top answer was nothing!

• Quiet time together with no kids

• Massage

• sex

• air pods

• lingerie

• to go out to a bar guilt free/alone time with his friends

• nothing (this was a top answer!)

• watch

• motorcycle

• nakedness (this one wins haha)

• wallet

• popcorn machine (this one made me laugh… he’s being honest!)

• jeans

• a short back rub “that’s only 5 min so they can get to the good part”

• tickets to a sports game

• jerky

• dinner

• hobby items (cars, shooting, etc)

• a nap

• socks

• a day off

• (lots of people said their answers were to naughty to repeat…I’ll leave those to your imagination)